I truly feel sorry for peolpe who don't have kids and don't like kids, I really do. All they want to do is be loved by you and talked to and played with and just be there with. Watching some of this crap about Casey Anthony has just made me sick that you could hurt a child like this as sweet and as innocent as she was. Pretty much all I'm going to say on that is, that bitch will get her payback, it might not be today, it might not be tomorrow, but she will get hers and it when it comes around I hope that they do to her what she did to that beautiful little girl, if justice prevails, they will make her suffer even more. People who don't have kids are really missing out, and those who can have them and choose not to, oh well, then there will be nothing left of your legacy and that's probably a good thing that you don't procreate. Those that can't should seek help to try if they really want them, but if you just live in your own little world and and feel that you need to be number one and be the center of attention then that's even sader. To dislike other peoples children is just plain spiteful and petty and what goes around, comes around.
Yes, they can be a handfull and there are no perfect children, anywhere, but when you are having a bad day, or your boss has made your work overtime, or traffic is crazy, and all they want to do is come up and give you a hug it's better than any amount of money you have in the bank, better than whatever car you drive, better than whatever house you live in and it's certainly a hell of a lot better than an animal. Children are important and their legacy will linger longer than a dog or a cat. Get mad at this post, agree with it or disagree, my give a damn doesn't work anymore and I really don't care. When you hear those words, "mommy, I love you", "I'll give you a hug", it makes up for all the petty ass manic depressive, bi-polar, self centered peolple in the world. Anyone who harms my child, physically, or emotinoal better find a hole and stay there, becuase when I'm done with you, you'll wish your parents would have never had you. I wont lie down for that and I will not take that crap from anyone on this planet.
Us waiting for our little girl has been a emotional rollercoster and we know that the perfect little girl will be out there for us, she's just waiting to be born, specially for us and it will be one of the most happiest days of all of our lives to finally have her with us. To have a daughter to go and do mani-pedi's with, to have 1000's of tea parties, in frilly dresses, for her big brother to protect her and not let any harm come to her, for her daddy to always be "daddy" forever and be the most important man in her life, and even for her and mommy to fight about makeup and clothes, and boys, and dating, oh the fun that'll be, but you know what, It'll be all worth it, becuase we will have shared our history and our values and our family witht them, and they can go on and have kids and the cycle can keep going. Cause once your dead, only your children will remember you, no one else will. There will be that occasional thought about you, but it's not the same without a legacy.
My own mom is getting ready to come down and hang out with her grandson next week for a few days and seeing her with him just makes me so happy. She might not have been the perfect mother, or been able to provide for my sister and I the way I can for my children, but she did the best she could with what she had, but she had us and that makes me the luckiest person in the world, to have been born and give her grandchildren. We went to Little Man's Great-Grandfathers 95th birthday over the weekend and I noticed the feeling that was in the room, it was of love and hope and optimission over everyone and to be alive for 95 years and have your entire family there, and see what you did, that you made that happen, you made this family possible has really touched me more than what I thought it would. Even grandparents that we don't see as often, just loved and hugged all over Little Man and the words of praise we heard about him about how big he's gotten and how he talks, and talks a lot and how smart he is, and how he acts. That made me feel good as a mother and no-one can take that away from me, NO BODY. He had all of his aunts and uncles and cousins and grandparents and great-grandparents there, it was great. I just hope and pray that he remembers this time and that we'll be able to share the rest of the family with our daughter. I truly am blessed. It might have taken years to get here, but I had drive and determination and it's all been worth it.
I love you Little Man, you made my day today.
